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Edging what is it and are the benefits
Edging what is it and are the benefits
Edging – What is it? It’s the sexual technique of repeatedly building up to an orgasm and delaying the release each time. While for the most part orgasm is the end goal of sex preventing release might seem counter intuitive.
Why do it?But here’s five reasons to edgeCan intensify the actual orgasmImprove staminaAid in prolonging sexCan help achieve multiple orgasms
How’s it doneGradually…
Sexual Self Care
Your sexuality is a part of yourself, and as such, deserves as much care as the rest of you. This can look like…
* Deciding for yourself when, whether, and with whom to engage in sex.
* Deciding that sex just isn’t for you, and that’s okay.
* Getting regular OB/GYN or urologist checkups. (And being honest with your doctor!)
* Getting tested for STIs regularly, especially in between partners.
* Saying “no” to sexual acts that make you uncomfortable, or that you don’t feel ready for.
* Exploring and learning what you like and don’t like.
* Learning about sex, anatomy, birth control, etc. especially if the sex ed you had during your formative years was nonexistent or just straight-up garbage.
* Ditching purity culture and all its empty promises.
* Using reliable birth control unless and until you want a baby.
* Deciding for yourself when and whether to have children, and how many to have.
* Deciding for yourself what you will do if you have an unplanned pregnancy.
* Being really honest with yourself about whether you personally can do casual hookups, or whether you absolutely need to have a relationship in order to have sex.
* Communicating and setting boundaries with partners.
* Making sure that if you choose to have sex, you’re doing so for the right reasons (i.e. not just to please your partner, or “fit in,” or what have you)
* Making sure you get your share of the pleasure pie, too.
* Listening to what your body is telling you.
* Letting go of shame.
* Ditching toxic diet culture and learning to love your body, or at least accept it.
* Understanding that porn is a fantasy; it is nothing like real sex with a real human being.
* Getting help for porn and sex addictions.
* Letting go of internalized misogyny, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, etc.
* Learning to both give and receive pleasure.
* Learning to communicate what you need.
* Taking responsibility for your own thoughts, words, actions, omissions, marital fidelity, feelings, etc., instead of dumping that on other people.
* Dressing for yourself, in clothes that make you happy (within the scope of appropriateness for a given occasion), not to either attract or repel any sex or gender.
* Deciding for yourself what labels define your sexuality or gender, or whether any labels fit at all.
* Carrying condoms/dental dams/etc. with you on dates, even if you don’t end up needing them.
* Making sure someone knows where you are when you go on dates or hook up with people.
* Understanding that being rejected doesn’t necessarily mean anything is wrong with you, and not taking that as a personal affront.
* Learning what healthy relationships look like.
* Getting help for and healing sexual trauma of any kind.
* Deciding for yourself what you share (or don’t share) on the Internet about your sexuality, your past, etc.
* Learning how consent actually works.
* Showing concern for your partner’s well-being and pleasure, as well as your own.
* Not using sex/porn/masturbation/etc. as a way of masking or avoiding your personal or relationship problems.
* Not tying your sexual history (or lack thereof) to your worth as a human being, or as a partner.
* Deciding that what other people think of you is their responsibility, not yours.
* Getting out of toxic relationships.
* Not sleeping with your ex.
* Going no further or faster than you really want to go.
* Deciding for yourself whether you’re into kink or not. (And that vanilla is valid!)
* Peeing after sex.
* Being honest with yourself and your partners.
* Developing a positive body image.
* Accepting that both you and any partners you have will have a past, good, bad, and ugly, and not judging or defining yourself or them by it.
* Really getting to know someone before agreeing to move in with them, have a baby with them, marry them, etc.
TAKE A LOOK AT THIS CREAM. TAKE A GOOD LONG LOOK.
MEMORIZE THE PACKAGING SO YOU MAKE SURE YOU NEVER BUY THIS CREAM FOR YOURSELF OR ANYONE YOU LOVE.
This post is about vaginas. My vagina in particular. I get yeast infections pretty regularly, and until recently I was able to afford to see a doctor who could prescribe me fluconazole.
Fluconazole, a drug also known by the brand name Diflucan, is a small pink pill. You take two pills a few days apart from each other to restore balance and harmony to your bountiful folds. I’ve never ever had a bad side effect from taking this pill.
Cut to November 2016. I’m a recent college grad without reliable health care coverage in the process of finding a job. And I’m dealing with a yeast infection. Before I moved out of state, my previous doctor told me about Miconazole. She said it was as effective as the pill and hallelujah, it’s over the counter! I decided to purchase the cream pictured above. This treatment only lasted 3 days, a convenient time frame for my schedule.
The application process was a little messy, and some of the cream came in contact with my vulva and labia. Within 5 minutes every piece of skin that had come in contact with the cream, excluding my hands, was on fire. I wanted to scream it was so painful. I began frantically searching for what I should do online.
I found a whole forum of people on drugs.com who had experienced something similar. These comments saved me, and these were just on the first page. There were 33 pages total, the earliest dated July 2009.
I was writhing in pain at 2AM when I found this forum (which I found by searching “my vagina burn itch hurts after miconazole” on Google). As soon as I read these comments I threw the devil cream directly into the trash and jumped in the shower. I didn’t feel any actual relief until I reached in and scraped the cream out of me. I paid $17 plus tax on this bullshit, but I could have just as easily ripped up my money or paid someone to not hurt me.
The moral of the story is that vaginal health care is is completely fucked up because we don’t have access to an over the counter cure for yeast infections that is safe for our bodies and also YOU SHOULD NEVER BUY THIS CREAM EVER.
Reblog to save a vagina.
Okay so I used to get yeast infections every month after my period ‘cause my pH levels were fucked up or something (idk that’s what my doctor said) and I actually used to take this stuff and it was fine. Then a couple years down the road I had a yeast infection for the first time in ages and I used this again and it burned so bad I had to sit in the bath and like physically dig it out of my vagina
AND THEN I LEARNED THAT IT’S BECAUSE I DIDN’T HAVE A YEAST INFECTION. I had a bacterial infection, which is honestly pretty much identical to a yeast infection depending on the severity. The only difference is that IF YOU HAVE A BACTERIAL INFECTION AND TRY TO USE YEAST INFECTION MEDICATION IT WILL HURT
But it’s not actually the medication’s fault. The medication DOES do what it’s supposed to do, provided you’re actuallysuffering from a yeast infection. Chances are though that you and every one who commented on this did, in fact, have bacterial infections instead.
FORTUNATELY they also make over the counter tests so you can know if you need to call your doctor or just grab some yeast medicine off the shelf. Next time if you aren’t sure, pee on a stick and save yourself a world of fucking pain
AMEN.
It’s unfortunate that I’m 27 and never knew that last bit of information. The world of vaginal health is so obscure and inaccessible.
Same. I know I have BV, and I’ve bought litmus paper from American Science & Surplus, but it’s nice to know there’s something I can get at the drugstore.
I was so worried when i read the original post! Here’s more info.
1) Yeast infection creams DO WORK! Especially if you have a bad one. For a yeastie that’s mild or just coming on, you can also try a garlic clove in the vag, changing every 12 hours. It works as an anti-fungal. Be sure to cut down on sugar in your diet if you’re getting yeast infections. Sugar is what candida eats, it’s like adding gasoline to the fire.
2) But before any of those things, be sure it’s actually a yeast infection first. Reading those reviews breaks my heart! Putting creams in there with a bacterial infection will definitely irritate it. Yeast infections can look a lot like BV, trichomoniasis, or chlamydia:
You can figure out what’s up with a home kit. Yes, it’s another 15 bucks or so (for 2), but if you’re skipping the doctor it is necessary! If you actually have a bacterial infection and leave it untreated, it will not only hurt but make you more susceptible to STIs, scarring, and even infertility. FYI, these kits also exist for UTIs which can also easily be mistaken for other types of infection.
Protect thy vag!
Reblog. Take care of ya pussies
This is absolutely SO IMPORTANT!!!
Sex fact: Some vaginal discharge is normal and some is not. Learn your body so you can learn the difference. Normal discharge is for cleaning and moisturizing the vagina. If you detect a change in odour, colour, or texture, it might be best to get it checked out. Especially if it accompanied with itchiness, redness, burning or swelling. (Source)
Sex Fact: As breasts begin to develop, they may develop at different rates. It is common for them to even out by the age of 20, but it is not always the case. It is normal to have two different sized breasts or nipples. (Source)
Sex Fact: Having sex for the first time doesn’t have to be painful. The only two reasons that having sex for the first time will hurt is: 1. if a female is not properly aroused so they are not self lubricated; or 2. nerves can cause the vagina to tense up making it harder for penetration. (Source)
Sex Fact: Oil based lubricants and condoms do not mix!!! It makes condoms POP!!!
Sex facts: STDs don’t always come with symptoms. Just because you don’t see or feel anything doesn’t mean you don’t have an STD. So make sure you and your partner get tested! (Source)
Sex Fact: You should still use protection when having oral sex because STDs can spread orally as well (Source)
Halloween Reminder: Costumes are not consent!
Sex fact: It is possible to get pregnant while on your period as sperm can stay in your reproductive organs for six days! (Source)
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