#rape culture
[TW Rape]
I once had a guy (my dad) tell my sisters and me that whenever a girl “gets raped” it is because she either was putting herself in a bad situation or because she made bad decisions in choosing a boyfriend. This was literally about a month after my sister’s boyfriend raped her.
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[TW Rape]
I once had a guy tell me I could have the job I’d come to interview for, if I wanted it. This, after he raped me on his desk.
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[TW Sexual Assault]
When I was fifteen, a friend of a friend forced me to suck him off and then forced his fingers into me in a park. When my friend came to find me, he whispered “I would have fucked you, but I don’t have a condom on me, and only sluts with STIs don’t shave their pussies” in my ear.
(submitted by anonymous)
I once had a guy who sexually harassed me in junior high tell me, at our twenty year high school reunion, that I was the one who sexually harassed him. Um, no. What he did left me physically ill for years.
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[TW CSA/Sexual Abuse]
I once had a guy tell me that I was beautiful and he wanted to taste me. I wasn’t sure what he meant, but I found out before it was over. I was ten… and he did a lot more than taste me.
(submitted by anonymous)
[TW Sexual Assault]
I once had a guy tell me it was perfectly acceptable for him to stick his penis in my mouth while I was asleep; after all, my mouth was open…
(submitted by anonymous)
I once had a guy tell me I was overreacting when I got pissed for him telling another girl to cover up because she was “asking for it” and that I should just suck it up when I am harassed in public because “that’s just how it is”
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[TW Rape]
I once had a guy tell me that I’m “Rapeable”. When I was horribly offended he then says “You must be on your period”
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I once had a guy tell me that I “looked like a girl who would be a total whore.” I was wearing baggy jeans, a Harry Potter hoodie, and converse sneakers at the time.I had never kissed anybody, or had any relationships. I was a sophomore in high school, 15, and he was a freshman.
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