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Me….I’m always looking for my favorites to feed my fetish. These from my girl @petesdomgirl36

petesdomgirl36:I love my man @pantyfetishpete This is what my GF @petesdomgirl36 sends me - a pic of

petesdomgirl36:

I love my man @pantyfetishpete

This is what my GF @petesdomgirl36 sends me - a pic of her stained panties from that sex ready pussy of hers, always ready for me. God I cant wait to get a hold of these panties. @dirtypants@dirtypantiesdirty@dirtypanty-lover


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heelza:#bestWOW! Simple and sexy

heelza:

#best

WOW! Simple and sexy


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goddesskatandherpet: dailyinspirationquotes: My blog posts relatable quote pictures! Follow for more

goddesskatandherpet:

dailyinspirationquotes:

My blog posts relatable quote pictures! Follow for more.

Goddess Kat: Shouldn’t this be considered one of the Commandments??

yes! @petesdomgirl36


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I’m now entering my second week of being unlocked, no cage, no keyholder, so I have total orga

I’m now entering my second week of being unlocked, no cage, no keyholder, so I have total orgasm freedom. Early morning wood was handled this way today - with @petesdomgirl36 dirty panties! But I blew my load right through them and had to resort to the tissues backup plan…..lol! Maybe I’ll soil them more later in the week ;)


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lifestylesofkink:. ohh yes! @petesdomgirl36
romorr1: pantiesllove: Sometimes the simplest undies can be the sexiest OmgCould not agree more!

romorr1:

pantiesllove:

Sometimes the simplest undies can be the sexiest

Omg

Could not agree more!


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desires-of-a-dominant-man:

I thought I would write a little and provide some useful information about subdrop and aftercare, since I have just had to help a close friend deal with her first experience of subdrop and although she knew what it was, she did not realise that is what she was going through and did not know how to deal with it.

What Is Subdrop?

Subdrop is the emotional and physical symptoms felt by a submissive that is caused by tiring out the body and the release of adrenalin, endorphins, hormones and other chemicals that create a natural high during a scene, leading to a subsequent ‘come down’ afterwards, similar to the effects of illicit drugs.  It can leave a sub feeling exhausted, depressed, sad and very emotional. This can include feelings of guilt, shame, embarrassment and other negative thoughts, but you should realise that this is simply your body’s natural response to a very intense experience, it is not your fault, you have done nothing wrong and you are not to blame.

Subs will often experience subdrop in different ways, some may feel the effects of it more intensely than others and it can last for varying periods of time, anywhere from an hour up to a few weeks afterwards, but it is only temporary and will eventually pass. It is important that you learn to recognise subdrop, because once you understand that you are feeling the effects of it, you can begin to address it and simply knowing why you are feeling that way will also help, especially when it comes to your emotions and feelings. Try to communicate, interact and stay in contact with your Dom or others, who can help you cope with your emotions and how you are feeling, by offering you support and talking you through it.  Following the other advice I have included below will also help you recover from the effects of subdrop.

For the all the Doms, Dommes, Masters and Mistresses out there, this is just as crucial for You, as it is for Your sub. Subdrop is very real and not some myth, so aftercare and helping Your sub deal with the effects of it should be just as important as what You might do during a scene, especially as You are essentially responsible for Your sub feeling the effects of it and caring for Your sub is part of the responsibility that comes with being a Dominant. Aftercare should not be neglected and staying in contact with Your sub, offering them reassurance, validation and support will help during this vulnerable time and they should not have to go through this alone.  Although some subs do prefer time to themselves, You should at least offer and ask what You can do to help, as everyone is different and their needs will vary.

If You do neglect aftercare and ignore subdrop, then the effects can begin to outweigh the benefits and enjoyment that Your sub may feel during a scene with You, which can cause problems for Your relationship with them and even end it. It is also worth pointing out that Dominants and switches can also feel a form of ‘drop’ after a scene, which I won’t address, but You can read more about it in the links I have provided at the end of this article.

So What Is Aftercare?

Aftercare is the name given to the process of being there with a partner for a sufficient amount of time, so they can feel safe, regain their emotional equilibrium and recover from the effects of a scene. It is equally important to recognise that aftercare is for both the Top and bottom, Dominant and submissive. If either person leaves too soon, then their partner may feel abandoned or a loss far exceeding the pleasure they might have felt during the scene.

Aftercare can include practical things such as making sure a sub is physically taken care of, treating any injuries, keeping them warm, allowing them to rest and making sure they have enough to eat or drink. Aftercare should also include attending to the emotional needs of a sub by offering them support, reassurance and validation.  This can include showing them affection by cuddling or holding them, even gentle and loving sex, as well as asking how they are feeling, talking through the scene with them and their experience, answering any questions they might have and giving them a lot of positive reinforcement, such as saying how proud You are of them. This can continue after you have parted ways and for several days afterwards, by staying in contact and checking on their recovery.

Although like subdrop, everyone has a different experience and needs when it comes to aftercare, some for instance may want to be left alone to process this on their own and there is no right or wrong way, it simply involves doing whatever is necessary to help them recover.

How To Cope With Subdrop

A few ways you can help your body recover and deal with the effects of subdrop include:

  • ACE which stands for aftercare, contact with your Dominant and expression of positive reinforcement by the Dominant.
  • Drink plenty of water or a sports drink like gatorade, which help replace fluids, salts and potassium in the body that you have lost during a scene.
  • Eat foods to replenish the nutrients in your body, while you might crave comfort foods and sugary treats, which will not only replace the sugar and energy you have lost, but obviously give you some sense of comfort, the effects will be only temporary and will only leave you craving more, which is not ideal.  Instead try to eat whole grain bread, meat, cheese and vegetables, while avoiding any foods that are white in colour, although milk is also very helpful.
  • Take some vitamins, especially the B-complex group that include folic acid, vitamin B6 and B12.
  • Be active and interact with others, even if you do not feel like doing so, as subdrop often leaves a sub feeling ashamed, depressed, isolated, confused and alone, so being by yourself and trying to cope on your own will only make those feelings worse. Even spending time with your pet can be helpful. Most importantly stay in contact with your Dominant and try to talk to them about how you are feeling, so They can help you cope.
  • Exercise will help release more endorphins, lessening the effects of subdrop, which is partly caused by the release of endorphins during a scene and the subsequent 'come down’ that occurs afterwards.
  • Try keeping yourself occupied, with a hobby or other activity which will allow you to clear your head or express your feelings.
  • Aroma therapy, warm baths, meditation and listening to soothing music is also helpful.
  • Try to stay warm.
  • Treat and care for any injuries you might have sustained during the scene, such as scratches, bites, welts or sore bottoms. I am not a doctor and I could not possibly hope to cover every potential scenario in this article, but generally applying basic first aid techniques and vitamin E cream will help your skin recover more quickly.
  • Rest and get plenty of sleep.
  • Try to get yourself ready before a scene, by getting plenty of sleep, trying to stay focused and preparing yourself for the experience.

Additional Reading

You can find a useful article on the subject of subdrop here. While these are an excellent series of very extensive articles on aftercare and subdrop for submissives,Dominants,switches and also emergency self-administered aftercare.

Subdrop!!! I’ve had this but didn’t know what it was called @petesdomgirl36

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desires-of-a-dominant-man:

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

  • Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.
  • Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.
  • DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.
  • Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.
  • Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.
  • Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.
  • Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.
  • The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

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Sharing again for those who missed it. Lots of great resources.

Reposting so I don’t lose all these!

repost so I don’t loose either!

The used panties of my GF @petesdomgirl36 her amazing wet pussy leaves me such horny evidence. SniffThe used panties of my GF @petesdomgirl36 her amazing wet pussy leaves me such horny evidence. Sniff

The used panties of my GF @petesdomgirl36 her amazing wet pussy leaves me such horny evidence. Sniff, sniff


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petesdomgirl36: @pantyfetishpete gosh so horny today just want to feel his rock hard cock inside my

petesdomgirl36:

@pantyfetishpete gosh so horny today just want to feel his rock hard cock inside my wet pussy.
Ugh

That’s my girl!! I can’t wait to feel that warm tight pussy around my cock @petesdomgirl36


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For information regarding our male chastity key holding service, send us a Tumblr message or a KIK message (Key.Holder).

This seems to be the deal @petesdomgirl36 doesn’t it…..I have no questions, I already know the answer


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When your keyholder dom GF @petesdomgirl36 is wearing these - you know your in for a good night! Fee

When your keyholder dom GF @petesdomgirl36 is wearing these - you know your in for a good night! Feet so worthy of total worship. @fuckyeah-highheels@keyholderclub


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My Goddess, my keyholder @petesdomgirl36 teasing me with her keys at dinner once again. I hope that

My Goddess, my keyholder @petesdomgirl36 teasing me with her keys at dinner once again. I hope that after some fine dining and some fine cocktails I’ll be released. But this is at her discretion, we shall see. @keyholderclub@keyholderclub


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fuckyeah-highheels: Love these babies. <3 Wow….just wow.

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Love these babies. <3

Wow….just wow.


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@petesdomgirl36 ….yeah, the clicking. I think you like when this happens.

@petesdomgirl36 ….yeah, the clicking. I think you like when this happens.


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do they have to be slutty panties @petesdomgirl36 ?

do they have to be slutty panties @petesdomgirl36?


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My behavior has improved greatly, I haven’t been punished by my keyholder @petesdomgirl36 in sMy behavior has improved greatly, I haven’t been punished by my keyholder @petesdomgirl36 in sMy behavior has improved greatly, I haven’t been punished by my keyholder @petesdomgirl36 in sMy behavior has improved greatly, I haven’t been punished by my keyholder @petesdomgirl36 in s

My behavior has improved greatly, I haven’t been punished by my keyholder @petesdomgirl36 in some time, I’ve been a good boy. So good that I was rewarded some of her worn panties!! I love you goddess, thank you! Now to sniff and torment myself while my cock is locked up. I mean her cock……its hers.


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Receiving pics of @petesdomgirl36 keys and hearing about other men doing things like flirting, telli

Receiving pics of @petesdomgirl36 keys and hearing about other men doing things like flirting, telling her she looks hot or buying her lunch do make me insane with lust and jealousy knowing I am locked up. It makes me want to pleasure and worship her more. I live to make sure my keyholder is happy.


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Vibrating plug? @petesdomgirl36

Vibrating plug? @petesdomgirl36


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